You’ve probably faced this once before: You are sitting with a girl, having fun, chatting. But how do you move from this situation towards a kiss?
Well, it is indeed a complex issue. The first kiss has a strong meaning: It moves the relationship from friendship to romance. So how do you get this kiss, and how can you make Her Want To Kiss You?
Before even considering to make the great move towards a kiss, are you sure she even likes you? Or maybe she’s just being friendly?
Women use various ways, most of them are subconscious, to give men signals that they are interested.
The conscious signals include: Asking you personal questions (and not “just talking”), checking if you have a girlfriend, making sure that you know she’s single, giving you compliments, etc. These are signals you can get from just listening to her.
However, many women try to hide their interest, and will not give direct signals like these. What’s more important, is to recognize her indirect signals. The most common ones will be:
- Touching her hair
- Smiling and laughing without real reasons
- Touching you
- Leaning towards you
- Not showing any signals she wants to leave
It will never be too scientific. Try to feel what she thinks of you, and whether she is attracted. Then, you can move to the next step – which is the kiss.
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In the movies, you see how a couple goes on a date: They can just talk for hours, and then suddenly kiss at the end, without even touching each other. But this can happen only In a movie.
In reality, a woman (and a man too) needs to be comfortable with you, before she can kiss, and this comfort should be built slowly and gradually.
How do you built this comfort? By getting her used to being physical with you. Attraction and interest is important, but in addition you need to get her used to your touch.
From the beginning of your interaction, you should touch her – at first, very softly. But as your interaction continues and you feel signs of interest from her, make the touching more intense:
Hug her here and then, touch her back, give her a neck massage, touch her shoulders, her hair, etc. This shouldn’t be done in a weird way. Every time, find some excuse and reason to touch her. If she doesn’t resist, and especially if she touches you back too – you are on the right way.
So, before going toward a kiss, get her used to physical touch.
There are certain actions a man should do before kissing a girl. These actions are needed to make the girl ready, and understand your intensions. I personally don’t believe in making a “surprise kiss”.
The first action is making the conversation slower and with deeper voice. Kissing a girl moves the interaction into different, romantic levels, and one of its elements is talking slow and deep.
Another action is to move closer towards her. This is another way to signal her that you are moving to a different level. Make sure you are close enough to each other for a kiss to happen. The best thing is to get her sit in front of you, without any table separating.
The next action is related to your facial expression. You should have a very strong, flirty eye contact. Create long eye contact with her, and then look at her lips. And again to her eyes, and to her lips. If she continues to hold eye contact, it’s a good sign.
Remember to make it very slow. You don’t want anything to happen in a rush. Stay completely calm and relaxed. Another thing that I recommend is to gently move your hand around her hair and face. Even move it around her lips.
Always pay attention to her reaction. Does she smile? Does she look interested? How do you feel?
Again, don’t rush anything, and slowly, carefully, move your face towards her. And then a bit back, and again towards her, and again back.
During all this process, keep talking about something. Preferably about love and romance. Don’t get a complete silence, as it would sound weird.
This is called teasing. She will be waiting and expecting the kiss. She can see your lips just near her lips. But don’t kiss her. Make it come, and stop a bit.
What will happen, is that in most cases, the girl won’t be able to wait any more, and kiss you.
Most men are afraid to initiate the kiss, because they are not sure if the girl is even interested. So, you don’t have to. As you see, you can do it slowly and carefully, and eventually the girl is the one who will kiss you